Liberation forged through the "Fire" of Discipline and surrender is exhilarating...
it feeds the "submissive "& empowers the Dominant,
once communication & trust is established the boundaries of self limitation can be shattered and the nature of this "dynamic" was created just for that reason...
To transcend physical , emotional and spiritual obstacles.
xxx-cite the the natural "animal" deep inside us ...waiting to emerge..
and the primary role [ in my opinion] ...

To relieve the suffering of all beings.....and to liberate one from "self bondage"....
May we all be able to be open and willing enough.to allow this healthy "power xxx-change" to occur......
Surrender your "self"...........and realize your true inner strengths...............and needs !